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Dealing with Dad

The Prince of Denial - Doug Wilhelm

Picture a troubled teen quietly removing this book from the school library shelves, then sitting down between the book stacks and devouring it. Maybe the teenager thought he was the only one hiding a terrible secret about his home life, but after a few pages of Doug Wilhelm’s accessible, educational novel, he will realize there are others just like him, and that there is hope. In The Prince of Denial—Wilhelm’s latest in an acclaimed middle-school series that has taken on tough topics like bullying and cyberbullying—the prolific author tackles the effects of alcoholism on families and, most of all, kids.

 

Using casual, convincing dialogue, Wilhelm drops readers right into the life of Casey Butterfield, seventh grader, on the first page. Casey is trading jokes with his comedic buddy, Oscar, and all is lighthearted. Except it’s not. Casey can’t really let go and hang out with his friend anymore because he needs to get home—and quickly. There are things he has to take care of, like cleaning the house, making dinner, and dealing with his unpredictable alcoholic father. Deeply embarrassed by his home life, Casey tells Oscar none of this; he just disappears like clockwork every day after school.

 

Wilhelm capably takes Casey through the psychological stages familiar to many relatives of addicts: denial, shame, understanding, and, finally, action. The tone ranges from realistic to more scripted, depending on whether teens or adults are speaking.

Although The Prince of Denial risks straying into the lesson-laden territory of a television after-school special, it goes refreshingly off-script just when least expected. All signs point to a textbook intervention arranged by Casey’s Aunt Julie and hosted by Casey himself; but at the last minute, Casey changes tactics.

 

The results are compellingly tension-filled and complex, and ultimately more satisfying than an ending that ties everything up neatly. Casey’s life gets better, but it doesn’t get all better, all at once. The realism will ring true for adolescent readers who might have come away from a storybook ending with more doubts than answers. In Casey, instead, they have a relatable role model for how to handle the tough stuff in their own lives.

 

Sheila M. Trask for ForeWord Reviews
November 30, 2013

Source: http://www.forewordreviews.com/reviews/the-prince-of-denial

Road to Nowhere

The Last of the Smoking Bartenders - C.J. Howell

 

The great American road trip takes a dark turn in C. J. Howell’s moody debut thriller. As we hitch a ride in a musty Malibu with an off-the-grid drifter called Tom, we travel not only the reservation roads of the Southwest but also the paranoid twists and turns of Tom’s own mind. Is he really on a mission to stop terrorists from blowing up the Hoover Dam? Or is belief that “The Network” is constantly tracking him a psychotic delusion that Tom is playing out in the real world? Howell keeps us guessing as Tom adds a homeless rafting guide and a band of burned-out meth dealers to his posse. Each person he meets is less stable than the last, and it’s easy to believe that the world has spun just as far out of control as Tom believes.

 

As bleak and violent as Tom’s trail is—Molotov cocktails and crossbows wreak destruction everywhere he goes—he’s also a bit of a poet. “The sky lavendered,” Tom notes at the end of another day on the road, seeing the beauty in his otherwise grim world. Howell presents Tom’s inner moments, like the dialogue throughout the book, without quotation marks, effectively emphasizing Tom’s ascetic, renunciate frame of mind. Howell gets us thinking like Tom and compels us to follow his lead down a very rocky road.

 

Sheila M. Trask for ForeWord Reviews
November 30, 2013

Source: http://www.forewordreviews.com/reviews/the-last-of-the-smoking-bartenders

Going on the Christmas List!

Reblogged from Beck Valley Books:
The Love Is Everywhere Coloring Book - Kanta Bosniak

A coloring book for adults and children alike with simple free hand pictures full of love, joy, happiness and self acceptance, some including a positive phrase. They provide the author's mental image of what she is describing prompting you further to think more about them.  I had to smile and giggle at the second picture especially with my love for 'real books' I love it.

This book is disguised as a basic spiritual coloring book, yet as with her other books they provide gentle triggers of love and happiness.

Source: http://beckvalleybooks.blogspot.com

Marketing Man

The Long Stem Is in the Lobby - Jerome Mark Antil

Come and take a walk down memory lane, back to 1959, and watch America change through the eyes of Jerome “Jerry” Antil. In The Long Stem is in the Lobby, Antil takes a rambling stroll through his coming-of-age years, from his wide-eyed first days at college, through his reckoning with racial prejudice, to his successful advertising career. Antil’s reminiscences serve as a sort of written scrapbook, offering episodic glimpses of one person’s experience of a unique time in American history.

 

The friendly grin in his cover photo and the buoyant tone of his writing give the impression that Antil is a likable guy. He can be self-effacing and poke fun at himself, but never lets himself get down for long. For instance, he describes his extravagant efforts to keep his first girlfriend from entering a convent—private jet rides and impossibly expensive gifts—but doesn’t dwell on his heartbreak when she sticks with her plan. Instead, he turns it into a lesson in “flair,” the go-the-extra-mile style that becomes his stock-in-trade in the advertising business.

 

Clearly written dialogue brings readers into a variety of scenes from Antil’s life, from dorm rooms to boardrooms. So, too, do period details like the “ratatattattattattattat” of a newsroom typewriter and the astonishing fact that fifty dollars would buy a respectable car in 1961. Most moments are fairly light, with little space given to reflection or introspection. Even the more historically significant moments—when Antil learns that Alabama Governor George Wallace won’t let his basketball team play against teams with black players, for example—are unembellished. Antil spins an entertaining tale about his own plucky response to Governor Wallace, but he doesn’t delve deeply into how moments like this affected his personal growth. Instead, he moves briskly on to the next event.

 

The chronological approach offers a clear structure, but as Antil’s career unfolds in the second half of the book, the connecting message or theme isn’t always evident. Antil’s professional successes do eventually allow him to do his own part to address racial inequalities in segregated city communities, but this isn’t a story about doing good deeds. Instead, it is the tracing of a career trajectory, with details of deals done and contracts signed. Some of these are fascinating—the clearly sexist story behind the Duncan Hines cake mix, for instance—but trimming a little from the comprehensive reporting of each promotion and job change would better sustain attention.

 

Antil closes with a collection of photographs and newspaper clippings—his glory days as a six-foot-ten “long stem” of a basketball player feature prominently—adding to the overall scrapbook feel of the book. The Long Stem Is in the Lobby may not offer earth-shattering revelations or intimate confessions, but it brings a clear, cogent, personal perspective to bear on a unique slice of American history.

 

Sheila M. Trask for ForeWord Reviews
November 26, 2013

Source: http://www.forewordreviews.com/reviews/the-long-stem-is-in-the-lobby-1

Colors of Love

Love's Ways: A Meditation on Love - Mark Gabriele

If all you need is love, then these meditations are the perfect gift to yourself.

 

If the words and images in this little gem didn’t work so well together, it would be tempting to frame each evocative page and hang it on the wall. Love’s Ways: A Meditation on Love brings together Mark Gabriele’s inspirational text and Kazzrie Jaxen’s color-saturated abstractions in a small book that packs a big punch. Gabriele composed this ode to love on the occasion of his brother’s wedding, but his message extends beyond romantic love. In a few carefully chosen lines, Gabriele illuminates love’s presence in every life.

 

Gabriele writes about love almost as a character, with nuances that he wants to explain. “Love’s math,” writes Gabriele, “is different from ours. It understands how to add, and how to multiply—but not how to subtract, not how to divide.” Observations like this float alone at midpage, contained within a series of fine-lined rectangles. With only a few words per page, Gabriele gives his readers time to contemplate their meaning before moving on to the next phrase. Although he does reproduce the entire text as a whole at the end of the book, the effect is not nearly as contemplative as the deliberately paced body of the book.

 

A great deal of the meditative effect comes from Jaxen’s pastel paintings. A different painting, each with its own particular palette, faces each page of text. Lively greens, dusky purples, and swirling pinks add another dimension to Gabriele’s words. Several pastels bleed off the edges of the page, echoing Gabriele’s message of love’s infinite nature.

 

Largely abstract, with soft fields of color blending into one another, the pictures do contain hints of each page’s message. For instance, when Gabriele writes that “for where love is offered, love is returned,” Jaxen combines hues of blue to invoke the feeling of a wave coming to shore and going back to sea. The illustrations—including the rich indigo and violet cover image revealing the shadow of a heart shape—engage readers by suggesting a concept or theme and allowing the audience to create its own personal meaning.

 

Love’s Ways would make a touching wedding gift, and it would be equally appropriate as a heartfelt expression of compassion to any loved one. It could also be a gift to oneself—to meditate on over time and bring some love to one’s daily life.

 

Sheila M. Trask for ForeWord Reviews
November 13, 2013

Source: http://www.forewordreviews.com/reviews/loves-ways

Teaching to a Higher Power

Educating Angels: Teaching for the Pursuit of Happiness - Tony Armstrong

In this refreshing inquiry into the true purpose of education, Tony Armstrong turns away from the current focus on subjects like STEM (science, technology, engineering and mathematics) and standardized tests, and offers an intriguing alternative. With Educating Angels: Teaching for the Pursuit of Happiness, Armstrong calls for a paradigm shift away from education that treats students as a means to an economic end, toward practices that support the goal of achieving each student’s happiness.

 

Presenting his own thoughts, as well as ideas from an impressive variety of experts, Armstrong makes a strong case that encouraging happiness as the core of education would not only result in more satisfied students, but also a more engaged citizenry.

Armstrong opens with angel imagery—“My students might be angels … the light of angelic soul shines through their eyes … I see the worth of angels in them”—that suggests the book may have an overriding spiritual tenor. It doesn’t. While the author is indeed a visionary with strong beliefs about the sanctity of each person’s experience, he is also a college professor and a lifelong student of philosophy, psychology, and logic.

 

Thus Educating Angels has an academic, intellectual tone. In clear, sophisticated language, Armstrong asks the reader not to follow his ideas blindly, but to examine the evidence that leads him to conclude: “If happiness is the common end of all human striving, and public education is the main means for governments to empower each citizen to pursue his own ends, it follows that empowering the pursuit of happiness is the main purpose of public education.”

 

In well-organized and comprehensively referenced chapters, the author delves into topics such as the purpose of education, the nature of happiness, and the sources of happiness. These are not mere musings; Armstrong uses data from his own research, as well as ideas from philosophers like David Hume, Immanuel Kant, and John Locke and contemporary psychology writers like Mihaly Csikszentmihalyi and Martin Seligman to support the need for a new type of curriculum. For instance, Csikszentmihalyi’s work on “flow” indicates that students engaged in their areas of strength will work harder and longer, accomplish more, and be more satisfied than those forced to pursue a distributed course of study across a variety of subjects.

 

As rigorous as Armstrong’s academic inquiry is, his theory might come to nothing without a consideration of the methods by which schools can teach happiness. Fittingly, the longest chapter in the book offers myriad practical suggestions for developing a new “happiness pedagogy.” A small sampling of methods includes: teaching mindfulness, encouraging a wide range of creative expression, practicing gratitude and forgiveness, and encouraging students to reflect on their own unique gifts. Armstrong breaks this down into grade levels, sowing the seeds of a comprehensive curriculum to be implemented from kindergarten to college. He also mentions inspiring programs already in place, such as Inner Kids, MindUP of the Hawn Foundation, and the Mindfulness in Education Network.

 

“If education can contribute more to our children’s happiness, it ought to,” concludes Armstrong. Educating Angels persuasively argues that this isn’t an impossibly lofty goal, but an entirely achievable one. Educators at all levels will benefit from considering Armstrong’s ideas and their possible implementation in the classroom.

 

Sheila M. Trask for ForeWord Reviews
November 26, 2013

Source: http://www.forewordreviews.com/reviews/educating-angels

In Search of Understanding

The Why of Things: A Novel - Elizabeth Hartley Winthrop

By Elizabeth Hartley Winthrop
Simon & Schuster, $24.99, 320 pages

 

Grief is a universal experience but also an exquisitely personal one. Winthrop captures the duality perfectly in this touching novel about one family’s journey through unimaginable loss. We meet Joan and Anders Jacobs and their daughters, Eve and Eloise, on their way to the family’s summer home in Cape Ann, on a route they’ve driven dozens of times. It’s different now, though, because oldest daughter Sophie isn’t there. The loss hangs in the air, undiscussed, until a harrowing scene at the vacation home forces them to face head-on the ways a life can end, the connections that are lost, and the ones who remain.

 

Winthrop takes a gentle tone throughout, mining the lyrical thoughts of the teenage Eve—“When the moon is facing left, is it growing, or has it already been full?”—alongside the careful conversations between her parents, and the bedtime fears seven-year-old Eloise hides in order to protect her parents. Some scenes are downright weepy, such as when Eloise sends her father off for the day with the chocolate brownie from her lunch, but Winthrop doesn’t so much dwell on the sadness as allow it. In doing so, she lets her characters feel what they need to feel and, ultimately, move on with a new understanding and appreciation of life.

 

Reviewed by Sheila Trask for San Francisco Book Review

Source: http://citybookreview.com/the-why-of-things-a-novel

Recipe for Survival

Survival Lessons - Alice Hoffman

You may think you know who Alice Hoffman is. You've been reading her novels for years, from Practical Magic to The Dovekeepers. She writes women's literary fiction, right? After 23 such novels, it seems like a fair assumption. But did you know she's a popular young adult author as well? Or that she penned a nonfiction book, a memoir? Until recently, I didn't either, and I'm glad to have discovered some new Alice Hoffman titles to add to my reading list.

 

Hoffman's latest book is called Survival Lessons, and it's a heartfelt entry into the world of nonfiction, a personal journey made universal. Fifteen years ago, Hoffman received a breast cancer diagnosis that sent her reeling. Treatment and recovery proved completely foreign landscapes, with few familiar landmarks to direct her way. Hoffman wanted a guidebook, but found none. Now, all these years later, she has written the very book she wished for.

 

"There is a very thin line that separates readers and writers," writes Hoffman in her introduction. "You make a leap over that line when there's a book you want to read and you can't find it and you have to write it yourself."

 

The result is not a typical memoir, and in fact contains surprisingly few glimpses into Hoffman's actual ordeal. Instead, it's more of an optimistic instruction manual explaining how to take care of yourself when you're dealing with a serious illness, or any traumatic experience.

 

Hoffman's advice seems simple on the surface. Choose your heroes, she says. Eat chocolate. Only answer the phone when you want to. Read more closely, though, and you'll see the unique interpersonal observations you've come to expect from Hoffman. Anne Frank may be an obvious choice for a hero, for instance, but Hoffman also brings up a more unlikely choice: the mother she once criticized because she "would rather see a Broadway play than clean the kitchen."

 

Skimming through Hoffman's book, you might be tempted to dismiss it as too simple, the book-length equivalent of a "how to" article in a women's magazine. Read it again, though. You'll see that the brownie recipe is more than a list of ingredients. It's from her friend, Maclin, and she writes, "Maclin's brownies will not appear to be perfect. They will sink in the middle. The top will crack. You'll want to throw them out. Don't. They will be everything they should be and more." Just like life.

 

Likewise, her cousin Lisa's instructions for knitting a "beehive" hat are more than a handy project. They're a tool for working out the truths in life. Hoffman notes that trying something new, failing and trying again, "helps with understanding the importance of revision, and that the process is what can bring you the most joy."

 

Hoffman's gentle reminders are interspersed with her own photographs, and the words of poets like Emily Dickinson and Robert Frost. The elegant presentation makes this brief book just right for gift-giving, and it would be a welcome addition to the bedside table of anyone struggling with self-care in a time of trouble.

 

Review by Sheila M. Trask for Story Circle Book Reviews http://www.storycirclebookreviews.org

 

Source: http://www.storycirclebookreviews.org/reviews/survivallessons.shtml

Look Around You

Invisible Nature: Healing the Destructive Divide Between People and the Environment - Kenneth Worthy

Invisible Nature

By Kenneth Worthy
Prometheus Books, $19.00, 325 pages

 

Who made that sweater you’re wearing? How will your computer get recycled? Chances are, you don’t know; in the modern world, few of us do. So how does this affect your everyday choices, and how do those choices affect the planet as a whole? Kenneth Worthy critically examines this situation in his information-packed new book, Invisible Nature: Healing the Destructive Divide between People and the Environment.

 

Worthy posits that the modern, consumption-driven lifestyle is at odds with the sustainability of the source of those products: the earth itself. He tackles the paradox from many different angles, from Aristotle’s philosophical musings to Zimbardo’s social psychology experiments. References to scientific studies, journal articles, classic fiction, and contemporary writings are thick on the ground here, reflecting Worthy’s well-rounded grasp of his subject, but also carrying the distinct possibility of overwhelming the casual reader.

 

Worthy’s ultimate conclusion—that humanity’s inability to understand the consequences of its actions stems from our growing disconnection from the people and places that support us—is convincing, and leads to an optimistic, if too brief, discussion of the ways we might mitigate this disconnect.

 

Reviewed by Sheila Trask for San Francisco Book Review

Source: http://citybookreview.com/invisible-nature-healing-the-destructive-divide-between-people-and-the-environment

Aiming for Equal

Getting to 50/50: How Working Parents Can Have It All - Sharon Meers, Joanna  Strober, Sheryl Sandberg

Getting to 50/50 suggests a new framework for considering family and work that will appeal to experienced professionals and those just starting their careers.

 

Is gender equality fostered by having more women in the workforce, or getting men more involved on the homefront? Have we been concentrating on only half of the equation, ignoring an important aspect of work-life balance: men’s contributions? The authors of Getting to 50/50: How Working Parents Can Have It All say the answer is definitely “yes.”

 

In the latest edition of their provocative book, experienced executives Sharon Meers and Joanna Strober consider decades of social science research and personal experience that support the notion that couples’ equal distribution of child care and professional pursuits benefits not only women, but their husbands and children, too.

Getting to 50/50, originally published in 2009, was a timely title in the year women achieved a majority presence in the workforce. An updated edition seems warranted, considering the vast economic changes that accompanied the ensuing recession. Aside from adding a new introduction by Facebook COO Sheryl Sandberg, however, Meers and Strober do not update their data for the 2013 edition.

 

It’s still interesting to learn that children of working and stay-at-home mothers are equally happy with the amount of time they spend with Mom, or that couples who split household duties in half also cut their odds of divorce by fifty percent. New information about the difficulties in finding satisfying, well-paying work in a drastically altered economy, though, would increase the book’s currency.

 

Meers, a longtime managing director at Goldman Sachs, and Strober, a venture capital investment veteran, write clearly for a wide audience, drawing on academic studies, popular books, and personal interviews. The authors lay out their book in three parts: they consider the benefits of two-career families; debunk popular myths associated with working families; and offer practical advice for the modern family trying to navigate these uncharted waters. The information is well-documented in chapter-specific notes, and the authors offer an extensive reference list for further research.

 

While their arguments are well-supported by evidence, Meers and Strober concentrate so much on studies that back their call for dual earner households that we may wonder if they have chosen to avoid more critical findings. Consideration of both sides—more attention to the “small number” of children they report may be adversely affected by day care, for instance—would lend additional authority to their position.

 

Getting to 50/50 suggests a new framework for considering family and work that will appeal to experienced professionals and those just starting their careers. The average worker may find it less relevant, as the focus is on upper echelon CEO-type positions, but all types of families can benefit from shifting perspective from competition between men and women, to cooperation that improves life for everyone involved.

 

Sheila M. Trask for ForeWord Reviews
October 21, 2013

Source: http://www.forewordreviews.com/reviews/getting-to-50-50

Get Over Yourself

Get Over Yourself!

Breaking Bad Habits Is Essential to Moving Ahead

 

by Sheila M. Trask

 

Human beings are natural problem solvers, able to develop and use tools to break through limitations. If we see an out-of-reach apple, we use a stick to knock it down. When we encounter calculations we can’t do in our heads, we employ a computer. We’re generally good at finding solutions.

So why do we feel so helpless when it comes to tackling our own unhealthy behaviors? What makes a bad habit so easy to establish and so hard to shake? Perhaps we don’t realize that helpful tools already exist. Here are five authors who explain the origins of the habits, addictions, and compulsions that plague modern people, along with a look at the emotional, cognitive, and interpersonal skills we can use to overcome them.

Making Habits Book Cover Popular PsyBlog writer Jeremy Dean explores the science behind our everyday habits in his new book, Making Habits, Breaking Habits: Why We Do Things, Why We Don’t, and How to Make Any Change Stick (Da Capo Press, 978-0-7382-1598-3). Dean takes on common myths about forming and breaking habits, and explains why it may take twenty-one days to form a habit, or maybe forty, or maybe one hundred and twenty. Dean teases out the factors contributing to our habit-forming tendencies with a careful analysis of the studies that have examined the impact of intentions, actions, and will-power.

It turns out there are many reasons those New Year’s resolutions are so hard to keep. The author leads us through it all in a friendly style that makes the minutiae of science accessible. And while he dedicates the bulk of the book to the foundation of habits, he also presents the latest evidence-based methods for overcoming them.

Recover to Live Book Cover Mindfulness is chief among Jeremy Dean’s habit-kicking prescriptions, and it’s also a tool recommended by Christopher Kennedy Lawford for overcoming entrenched and damaging habits. In Recover to Live: Kick Any Habit, Manage Any Addiction (BenBella Books, 978-1-936661-96-1), Lawford explores a broad spectrum of dependencies—“The Seven Toxic Compulsions”—that fall under the umbrella of addictions. While he does share his personal experience with drug and alcohol dependence, this is not a memoir; it’s a readable reference book, filled with eye-opening statistics, pertinent research results, and quotations from some of the most distinguished minds in mental health today.

Alcohol, drugs, food, gambling, hoarding, sex, and smoking are on Lawford’s list of toxic compulsions, and he addresses each in turn, calling on a variety of experts. We hear from Harvard professor Dr. Howard Shaffer, sex addiction specialist Dr. Patrick Carnes, and addiction counselor to the stars Dr. Drew Pinsky, among a great many others. None of the specialists offer an in-depth analysis, and the sheer variety of opinions can be overwhelming, but their collective experience provides a valuable perspective on addictions and how to treat them.

Break Your Addiction Book Cover In Break Your Addiction to Conflict: 12 Tools to Quiet the Mind (Snowday Press, 978-0-9858950-0-6), Nathan J. Snow broadens the definition of addictions even further than Lawford. According to Snow, a spiritual seeker and experienced meditation practitioner, most of our problems can be attributed to a single source: our attraction and addiction to conflict. Snow defines conflict as: “Any mental struggle in which our wishes run contrary to opposing demands.” He casts a wide net with this definition, and offers limited evidence to support his philosophy, relying more on axioms like “conflict is convenient” and “acceptance underpins serenity.”

Snow may be short on explanations, but he offers a rich variety of exercises for the reader who wants to stop engaging in unhealthy conflict. Snow’s “12 Tools to Quiet the Mind” include writing a gratitude list, doing a candle meditation, and cultivating a life of service. All aim to shed light on life’s unnecessary conflicts while encouraging us to compassionately change our ways slowly, over time.

Hungry Book Cover Those who truly seek change, however, may also need to look inside and really investigate their current mental and emotional status. That’s what Dr. Robin L. Smith has done in her latest book, Hungry: The Truth About Being Full (Hay House, 978-1-4019-4002-7). Dr. Robin, as she is known from her years as the host of a popular radio call-in show, was once a lot like the addicts described in the books above. Smith was always looking for more to satisfy her seemingly insatiable desires. Fame didn’t do it, and neither did fortune. The high from appearances on The Oprah Winfrey Show and a blockbuster book tour for her first book, Lies at the Altar, couldn’t last forever.

Smith’s dramatic voice carries readers through her starting-over years, as she recounts the losses she faced as well as the resolutions she made. In her own upbeat, sometimes melodramatic style, Smith tells how she stopped “settling for crumbs” and got “invited to the feast.” Readers looking for an intimate memoir may be disappointed, as Smith is more generous with pop psychology platitudes—“We’re all in recovery from something,” or “No one has the right to control you”—than she is with truly personal details.

Dr. Phil Book Cover Pop psychology itself takes a big hit in David Bedrick’s radical response to conventional approaches, Talking Back to Dr. Phil: Alternatives to Mainstream Psychology (Belly Song Press, 978-0-9852667-0-7). While the author agrees with the premise that unhealthy behaviors stem from underlying personal and interpersonal issues, he does not believe in the bootstrap approach to personal change. For instance, Bedrick holds that addictions stem not from personal flaws but from society’s failure to support the full expression of uncomfortable emotions like anger.

The cure, says Bedrick, is to use love-based psychology rather than the shame-based solutions that are so prevalent today. Using episodes of the popular daytime television show Dr. Phil to illuminate the mainstream methods, Bedrick offers alternative approaches to problems ranging from extramarital affairs to obsessive thinking to drug addiction. The device is clever, and Bedrick captures Phil McGraw’s no-nonsense, get-it-together message perfectly. Bedrick’s own message, however—that all of mainstream psychology is shortsighted—might be stronger if those mainstream views were represented by a wider range of personalities.

Essentially, each of these authors recommends cultivating awareness. If we are to tame our bad habits, compulsions, and addictions, we must first acknowledge the nature of the beast. Once we know where we stand, a combination of cognitive, social, and emotional tools can help us transform the future.

 

This article is from the Spring 2013 issue of ForeWord Reviews. To start receiving your own copy of ForeWord Reviews, subscribe to the print edition or online edition today.

Truth or ConsequencesYoung Adult Fiction Crosses Gender and Generations

By Any Other Name

Coming Clean - Kimberly Rae Miller

Kimberly Rae Miller's courageous memoir shows how much addictive family systems have in common, regardless of the "substance" abused. Whether parents are obsessed with alcohol, drugs, sex, or, in this case, collecting stuff, the kids grow up confused and ashamed. If you grow up with a mother who passes out at the dinner table or a father who saves every scrap of paper he ever saw, the result is the same: you're not sure what normal is supposed to look like.

 

In Coming Clean, Miller bravely reveals a childhood lived in isolation, amidst the mountains of things her parents could not throw away. There was so much stuff clogging every room that Miller's family didn't even realize they had a squatter in their attic: the piles provided too much insulation for them to hear his comings and goings. Ashamed though she is, Miller holds little back.

 

It's less the horror of the hoarding, however, that intrigues. Instead, it's the way Miller honestly relates the ways she has tried to deal with her parents' problems, both as a child, and as an adult who still gets pulled into the codependent cycle time and time again. Each time she bails them out, Miller gets closer to finished with all the dysfunction, and it's inspiring to see her slowly get her bearings and make her own way in the world.

 

(I was also inspired to start cleaning out my basement.)

 

 

Futuristic History Lessons

John Smith - Last Known Survivor of the Microsoft Wars - Roland Hughes

 “Beginnings, no matter how important they are, get forgotten,” writes Roland Hughes in this far-reaching inquiry into mankind’s history, and perhaps, its future. With John Smith: Last Known Survivor of the Microsoft Wars, Hughes pushes the restart button on humanity, setting us down nearly seventy years in the future on a planet with very few people and very little memory of everything that has come before.

 

                Trying to sort it all out is young reporter, Susan Krowley, who has grown up in a post-apocalyptic world that retains only stray remnants of modern technology, and a vague story about the near-annihilation of humanity on November 13, 2013. She’s hoping for answers from the oldest person she’s ever met; at 79, John Smith carries knowledge from the old world that has nearly been lost. Krowley’s interview with Smith provides the structure of the book, and allows Smith to hold forth on topics ranging from Druids and Mayans to terrorism and global warming.

 

                The question-and-answer structure will be familiar to philosophy students, and Hughes’s use of the method aptly recalls Plato. Like the Classical Greek philosopher, Hughes tests theories about the nature of the world and the human beings who inhabit it, and both use Atlantis as a model through which to explore the possibilities.

 

Hughes lightly develops the relationship between interviewer and subject as their conversation continues, and it becomes clear that Smith is really the one challenging Krowley with his insistence that she understand the context, or “frame of reference” for her questions about the so-called Microsoft Wars. Krowley does become more inquisitive and critical throughout the interview, although many of her queries continue to be simple prompts for Smith to continue his contemplation. Thus their dialogue seldom tells us a lot about their characters, which limits the impact of Hughes’s ideas.    

 

                Although Hughes creates a detailed modern science fiction setting—the Human Genome Project, weapons of mass destruction, and anti-gravity science all contribute to man’s fate—the book is less of a science fiction adventure than it is an opportunity for philosophical musings. Readers hoping for something earth-shattering to happen in the pages of John Smith may be disappointed. The seminal event happened in the past, and Krowley and Smith are just here to help us pick up the pieces.

                The pieces themselves are intriguing, and Hughes keeps the frequent monologues from dragging by imbuing Smith with a dark sense of humor—speaking of fossil fuels, for instance, he includes humans in the equation (“Humans are useful in a variety of forms. Have they invented a product called petroleum jelly yet?”)—much to Krowley’s dismay. And don’t get him started on economists and MBAs. Smith is an opinionated guy, which helps his forays into history read less like encyclopedia entries and more like impassioned speeches. Some speeches are lengthy, but Smith’s urgency carries the reader along.

 

                The Microsoft Wars, as it turns out, are only a small part of the tale here. Instead of focusing on the final battle, Smith expands his thoughts on the political, economic, psychological, and even mythological forces that may have led to humanity’s demise. What the few people left on earth will make of this history, and how it will affect their future, remains an open question that Hughes, a prolific author, will likely take up in future volumes.

 

Reviewed by Sheila M. Trask, MS/LIS, through ReviewWorm Book Review Services

               

                               

                 

 

 

The Importance of Voice

We Need New Names - NoViolet Bulawayo

Reviewed by Sheila Trask for Readers' Favorite

A sad and beautiful coming-of-age story of a child and her country, NoViolet Bulawayo’s novel, We Need New Names, takes us to Zimbabwe during the Mugabe era. Here, 10-year-old Darling copes with extreme poverty, hunger, and near-homelessness in her ironically-named shantytown, Paradise. We join the smart, observant Darling and her roving band of friends as they hunt for the best places to steal guavas and play frequent games of “find bin Laden.” Bulawayo’s knowledgeable and empathetic descriptions allow us to feel their hunger but also their friendships. Most of all, we see them becoming adults before their time, as in a wrenching scene where the friends try to figure out how to “get the baby out” of 11-year-old Chipo’s stomach.

Bulawayo looks unflinchingly at harsh economic, racial, family, and personal experiences in Zimbabwe, through Darling’s perceptive eyes. Later in the novel —- which reads more like a series of linked vignettes than an action-filled story -— Darling travels to America to escape the dire situation at home. However, Detroit, Michigan is hardly the answer to all of her problems. In fact, her new home brings new complications, which Bulawayo covers in chapters focused on technology, music, capitalism, violence, and pornography. These later sections feel a little forced, as though the author had a predetermined list of issues to address, though her observations are spot on. A girl who never had enough to eat is appropriately alarmed by an American culture that celebrates a combination of overeating and extreme dieting, for instance.

Lyrical at times, no reader will forget Darling’s first experience of the Michigan snow that came silently to swallow everything up with its whiteness. We Need New Names is not a speedy read. Darling takes her time expressing herself, and there is no anticipation of crisis to create momentum. Readers will, however, appreciate Bulawayo’s unique voice, her cross-cultural comparisons, and the compassion with which she portrays one girl’s international journey toward womanhood.

Intricate, Cerebral, and very, very Russian

A Simple Soul - Vadim Babenko

A Simple Soul is anything but simple. As with matryoshka nesting dolls, Russian author Vadim Babenko fits stories inside stories in this clever, cerebral, and complex novel. Babenko tucks an unlikely romance inside an intricate thriller, wraps it in intellectual musings, and sends the whole thing on a tour of modern Moscow and environs. Filled with astute observations about the contradictory inner and outer lives of modern humans, A Simple Soul offers much food for thought even as it engages in an entertaining quest for love and treasure.

 

At the heart of the story is Elizaveta Bestuzheva, a Moscow resident who begins receiving mysterious phone calls, flower deliveries, and anonymous messages. As Elizaveta follows the clues that lead to Timofey Tsarkov, an old flame with new ambitions, Babenko introduces a wide-ranging cast of characters. There’s American treasure-hunter Frank White Jr., Russian historian Nikolai Kramskoy, and spurned lover Alexander Frolov. All of them are passengers on the same train that is taking Elizaveta to her old lover. Unaware of how their stories will intersect, the travelers ponder their own motives and next moves.

 

The constant contradiction between personal motives and public actions is a theme repeated throughout the book. Timofey, for instance, wants to marry Elizaveta not out of the passion he pretends but to escape the clutches of the daughter of an overzealous mafia boss. He’s willing to trade intimacy for safety and security. Similarly, Nikolai has a deep respect for history, but he works for clients who want to locate historical documents that bolster their images, a task that often requires Nikolai to embellish his finds. The author explores this duplicity from many angles, and while his observations remain fresh throughout, their frequency and length can at times stall the progress of the story.

 

A strong sense of place permeates Babenko’s writing, whether in his characters’ departure from the urban landscape of Moscow or their arrival on the smaller streets of Sivoldaisk. Babenko uses vivid imagery throughout, ranging from the dramatic to the subtle. Of Moscow, for instance, he writes boldly, “This was a strange world with its own color spectrum: poisonous greenery and puddles producing reddish-yellow lichen and rosy moss oozing into the cracks of the Khrushchev projects.”

 

Sivoldaisk gets a more nuanced treatment as a “wild steppe for some; for others it’s the dust grinding in their teeth.” The specificity of Babenko’s descriptions not only makes them effective and evocative but also asks the reader to pay attention to his carefully crafted sentences. Paying attention is crucial since the conflicted main characters run into unexpected, and serious, trouble on their journey, and it’s important to know each person’s private and public story.

 

Those expecting an edge-of-your-seat page-turner might find the contemplative tone of A Simple Soul to be challenging, but it can also be immensely engaging. Babenko’s reflective rhythm encourages immersion into his world; he poses pivotal questions about the nature of reality and illusion and the creation of identity in the modern world.

 

Sheila M. Trask for ForeWord Reviews

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Radical Russia

The Consolations of the Forest: Alone in a Cabin on the Siberian Taiga - Sylvain Tesson, Linda Coverdale

For an intentional hermit, wilderness trekker Sylvain Tesson has a surprising amount of company during his six-month retreat in Siberia. Though he deliberately exiles himself to a remote one-room cabin for solitary contemplation, he ends up developing new relationships with his environment, its animals, and its human population as well.

 

In The Consolations of the Forest: Alone in a Cabin on the Siberian Taiga, Tesson shares the detailed journal of his days in what should be the bleakest corner of the planet, but which turns out to be a rich and varied experience.

 

Winner of the Prix Medicis for nonfiction in his native France, this English translation of Tesson’s Dans les Forets de Siberie gives the prolific travel writer an expanded audience. Readers from across the globe are invited to join the intrepid traveler as he ventures into the subarctic realms with only his books, his vodka, and a sustaining supply of pasta and Tabasco sauce. On the shores of Lake Baikal, he sets out to conquer an ambitious reading list that includes Nietzsche, Sade, Camus, and Shakespeare. After all, he has six months to fill.

 

The time fills more quickly than either Tesson or his readers expect. First, there are the basics of survival. (As the Zen proverb says, “Before enlightenment, chop wood, carry water.”) Then, there are the visitors. The daily conversation with a titmouse at the windowsill and the constant lookout for bears occupy many hours. So, too, do the surprisingly frequent visits from Tesson’s Russian counterparts, who live in the forest to safeguard the wildlife against the threat of poachers.

 

Tesson never knows when a “neighbor” from seventy-five miles away will crash through his door. Sausages and seal meat are slung on the table, vodka is passed around, and raucous conversation flies across the room at top speed and volume. And then, just as suddenly as they appear, the visitors take off. It’s contrasts like these, between solitude and companionship, that make Tesson’s story fascinating.

 

Tesson’s writing is most evocative when he concentrates on the tangible details of his days—his trek “over sheets of lunar ice that resemble huge jellyfish veined with turquoise,” for example. These passages create vivid images in the reader’s mind, although Tesson occasionally gets carried away by the metaphorical possibilities, as when he imagines “the melancholy of forests, the joy of mountain torrents, the hesitation of bogs, the strict severity of peaks, the aristocratic frivolity of lapping waves.”

 

With The Consolations of the Forest, Tesson adds a modern voice to the rich literary history of contemplative nature writers like Thoreau and Emerson. Tesson reaches few conclusions, but rather asks readers to accompany him as he explores the question of people’s relationship to nature and each other.

 

Sheila M. Trask for ForeWord Reviews
August 31, 2013

Source: http://www.forewordreviews.com/reviews/the-consolations-of-the-forest